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Do I Need Therapy?

If you are not sure that what you are going through is normal, you might feel better just by reaching out. It is possible that you will get initial relief from just scheduling an appointment or sending an email. The team at The Counseling Collective can help you decide if you should come in for an evaluation and further support.

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What is Shame and How Does it Affect Me?

Shame is the painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonorable, improper or ridiculous. Shame is an intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that we are flawed. Shame has everything to do with there is something wrong with me. There is something that is not ok with me. I am bad. I am bad and so I don’t deserve love and belonging.

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Life Transitions

Life is full of transitions. Transition from college to adulting, getting married, job changes, move to a new city, having kids, loss of a loved one, a breakup/divorce, a significant medical diagnosis. Some transition are by choice like graduating or getting married. Others are unwanted, like an unexpected layoff from a job or breakup with a boyfriend. Whatever the circumstances, navigating the in-between space can be difficult as it presents new challenges, heightened emotions, and demands new responses.

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Feelings Are Okay

Do you believe that feelings are okay? Most of us were never taught to feel, process, and name our emotions as children... sadly this has resulted in many adults who are not okay with not being okay.

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5 Things Not to Expect from Counseling

Everyone comes to their first counseling session with a specific set of expectations. Understanding what NOT to expect from counseling will help you keep an opened mind and develop a more realistic understanding of the counseling process!

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Just Tell Me What To Do!

One big misconception about counseling is that it is mainly about getting advice about a current life situation, hearing a counselor's opinion about you or your specific set of circumstances, being told exactly what to do, and/or getting an answering about what is the "right" or "wrong" decision.

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